Slow, Simple, Local
These three words have become something of a personal mantra recently. You may have heard of the Slow Living movement, and it has much in common with mindful living. Every so often, I find myself called to slow down some more, to create time and space for what’s most important in life. Here are three ideas for slower living, if you feel inspired to join me.
In the Aboriginal culture, there is a practice known as dadirri, or ‘deep listening’. Hank Wesselman (drawing on Miriam-Rose Ungunmerr-Baumann’s well-known reflection) describes it as ‘a special quality which allows each of us to make contact with a deep spring that lies within us. To connect with that spring requires that we achieve a state of quiet, still awareness.’
Fast living just doesn’t seem to allow enough room for this natural inner wisdom and wellbeing to emerge. However, when we pay full attention to our embodied experience, we get a taste of this quality of deep listening. And living more slowly really supports that.
When I notice I’ve become disconnected – from myself, from loved ones, or from my environment – I know I’m not leaving enough room for deep listening to happen. But re-connecting doesn’t have to mean spending hours in meditation – it can be as simple as leaving something out of my schedule for the day or week, to create the needed space.
In modern culture, there is so much on offer that it’s easy to get drawn into craving ‘bigger, better, more’. Recently I’ve been re-evaluating the simpler experiences in life. I noticed that I wasn’t fully appreciating things that happen frequently, simply because I was chasing after novelty.
I found that it’s possible to re-engage with these familiar occurrences – like hanging out with friends, cooking, family downtime – and discover just how rich these experiences are. Choosing the simple life, far from being boring, can actually create a wonderful feeling of ‘enough’.
I was very inspired by Melanie Warnick’s book This Is Where You Belong – in which she explores the theory of place attachment and how it can boost wellbeing. She outlines a plan to help you learn to ‘love where you live’. It really reminded me of the mindfulness practice of taking in your local environment as if you were visiting on holiday.
Practicing ‘loving where I live’ has encouraged me to see my local area through this illuminating lens of unfamiliarity. Making an effort to spend my time (and my money) in my local community has brought an unexpected sense of joy and connection. It’s become a habit to ask myself ‘where can I buy this locally?‘, or ‘what can we do for fun nearby?‘, and I feel a lot more content and rooted for it.
Sometimes, I just return to those 3 words – slow, simple, local – as a kind of anchor, to catch myself from coming adrift.
Meditations that complement this month’s theme are ‘Breathing With The Body’, ‘Support Your Self’, or ‘5 Minute Breathing Space’ – which can all be found on the Meditations page.
Blogs that relate to slow living:
Hurry Up, Get More Done and Die by Mark Morford
Podcast on slow living from Brook McAlary & Tsh Oxenreider – On Ignoring What Slow Should Look Like
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